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Monday, October 31, 2016

29 weeks and counting

Hola!!!

Today, just came back from routine check up at HTAA. Everything went well. The baby is gaining as expected. The previous breech position has changed to one breech and one cephalic. The girl cephalic and the boy is breech. But it is still too early as they can still change the position as long as they want.

The doc was asking whether has any doc discussed regarding the mode of delivery? Well, as far as I remembered, none was seriously discussed about that. They just mentioned that if the positions are OK, then normal is allowed. If breech, then Cesarean will be opted.

Then, she explain since I have reached the 29 weeks. For twins, it is normal for them to be delivered earlier than expected. As she looked at my belly, she concerned of how much bigger can my belly go. The size of the belly could also affect the maturity of the pregnancy. And then...the lengthy explanation. Hahahaha....

To tell the truth, I was kinda worried. Yeah, delivering twin. For those who think delivering them as easy as delivering the normal single baby, nope...nuh uh... I was exposed to the risk of fatigue, breech for second baby, C-sect for second baby, placenta ruptured, bleeding. Yeah, this is also risk for normal single delivery too but I am going to have higher risk to get that.

Most of people (including my mum), they were saying, "Boleh normal tu. Sakit c-zer tu lagi teruk. C-zer tu susah nak sihat."

I am more concern of my babies' conditions. I want them to be healthy. Imagine, after hours of contractions, I have to push twice, and if the one of the babies is breech, I have to undergo c-sect. Wow!!

So, my plan is, if they can make sure I won't go for any c-sect, then I will opt for normal.
But, this is just me talking. Hahahaha...

*malas nk dengar cakap orang dah. This is my body, and I controlled my decision.

Saturday, October 8, 2016

The news

Assalam,

I plan to write this little journey of mine regularly but Allah's plan is better. Haha.. I was busy with all the things, life, work, mummy's life. Juggling between work and being a mum and wife is not an easy thing to do. Well, I still want to keep writing since I want to put the memory of my each pregnancy here.

It started when I decided to get pregnant. Humaira is 3, Adam is 5 and I think they are old enough to listen and do things that we asked. so, yeah... we go on with the plan.

That was in April 2016.

May 2016, I only realized that I was 'late' that month when a colleague mentioned about hers. I frantically looked at my mobile apps and yup, I get that butterfly fluttering in the stomach when it was supposed to be 3 days before that. I knew my body very well, thus I waited for another couple of days and tested at home. Again, the double line appear.

It was Ramadhan when my siblings found that I am pregnant. At the same time, my lil brother announced their good news too. So, there are two baby bumps in the family!! Yay! It was a really good news since my bro was waiting for two years for his baby. They got married when Humaira was 3 months.

My lil sister and my brother keep teasing me that I am pregnant with twin. I was laughing at their jokes. Uhuh...at that time, it was a funny thing. I said to them, "Ingat kucing ke nak anak banyak skali pregnant?" and who knows at that time, maybe the doa was granted then.

Weeks after that, I went to a clinic, alone, since I just want to do a confirmation. I have to register for my regular check up at the nearest Klinik Kesihatan. Thus the need of confirmation. It was Tuesday morning 21 June 2016, and I said to Ida n Kak Adda, I wanna go to our panel clinic. It was nearby, the Poliklinik Ar-Razi. I called hubby and told him again, though I had mentioned it the night before. He was reluctant to let me go alone. I said, everything would be fine. It was a simple test, or a scan. Hubby was having a meeting, so I didn't want to bother him. Moreover, this is my 3rd pregnancy (plus I had a D&C before). Alaaaa.... no biggie.

So, everything was normal. registered my name, asked for a female doctor and waited for my name to be called. Then, the doc asked me to do a scan. The lady doctor was wearing a full hijab. She asked a few things and scan my tummy. Suddenly, she said, "Allahuakbar, Subhanallah...." I was stunned. What was it? Was it something bad? My baby...is she OK?

"Alhamdulillah Puan. Puan pregnant kembar. Ada keturunan kembar ke?" (Alhamdulillah, you are pregnant with twin. Do you have any twins in the family?"
I was like, huh???? My brain couldn't register what she said. After a few seconds, I answered the family twins' history. (My parent both has twins in the family). I felt blood rushing to my cheek. It was overwhelming.

As soon as the scan ended, I whatsapp my husband and sent the scan picture to him with caption "Guess what?" and he replied, "A boy?". I couldn't stop laughing. How can he guess that. I was still at 10 weeks pregnant. I said, "twin". His replied was this..

Hahahaha..... I couldn't call him since he was in a meeting. Imagine him can't focus in the meeting..hahahaha

Then, I called my mum (while driving, yeah.... guilty of that. But I can't help myself.). She didn't sound so surprised but she was rambling about having the history of twins in the family etc...hahahaha...

Arrived at the office, I literally almost run to my office. I shouted Ida's name at the main door. Tried to cope with my breathing, I told her the good news and Kak Diah heard our screams. Hahahaha... Everyone was screaming with joy. Called kak Adda too and showed her the scan. Even the boss screamed!! Hahahaha.

I was on cloud nine all day long. Couldn't believe it myself.

 Well, that was the day I got the news. A very happy news.....

Wednesday, August 10, 2016

I should start writing again

Assalam,

Yeah.. I know. It's been a while. But, I think I should start writing again. With all these wonderful experience and great news, it's sad if I don't put it into writing, something that stays forever.

Let's recap.

2015- Got my M.Ed TESL. Barely finished it on time. Hahahaha
2016- Nothing much, I got pregnant not with one but two.

WHAT?!!!

Yeah.. I am bless with this 3rd pregnancy, TWIN!!

I am currently at my 18 weeks. The first trimester went quite OK. Not too much nausea, just lost few kilos and the bad news is I am stuck with GDM (Gestational Diabetic Melitus) or most people call it Diabetic during pregnancy. I'll write the whole story later, in the next post.

My kids, Adam and Humaira. Adam is 5 years old. He started his pre-school years last year (I can't remember whether I have mentioned this or not.). He became a very chatty boy, and is a very helpful child. Humaira just turned 3 last July and she is a very talkative one. When I say talkative, it means she can talk non-stop for one hour. I send her to Taska everyday, and she is kakak to some of the little kids there. I love her bouncy curly-at-end hair. But it is very difficult to manage, plus her sometimes don't-want-to-comb-her-hair attitude.

My husband, still a caring and understanding man. Love him to the moon and back. We have our ups and downs. Still, that's what marriage life is all about. Sharing the same burden and scratching each others' back.

Well, I'll better stop now. Got class to teach.
Till next post,
byeeee :)

Tuesday, December 2, 2014

Priceless..

Assalam..

Years ago, I have a lot of things that I love to do.

I love reading. Yes. I could finish reading a novel in one day.
Remember the thick Harry Potter series? I finished reading that thick novel (the last one) in two days. Hahaha...
I also love reading Malay novels. Ni lagi la, dalam 3/4 jam (with interruptions) pon boleh abis.

I love handmade things. Crafts, hand made cards, quilling, scrap book making... etc.
I make my own greeting cards, my book marks and I gave them to my friends too.

I love watching movie at cinema. Most of the time, I watched sci-fi, action movies and animation. I went to cinema with frens and mr.hubby of course.

I am crazy with tv dramas and series. Name it! Grey's Anatomy, CSI (all three), Rookie Blue, K-drama, Chinese series, ...

But those are PAST...
PAST TENSE...
ago..
was..
last time...

When I changed my status from a married lady to a mother, those are the things I sacrificed.

When I tried to watch my drama series, my two little kiddos will shriek for attention. When both of them had calm down, the drama had either ended or I just couldn't understand the storyline anymore.

When I took my quilling pen or tried to cut my papers, these babies will start 'helping' me. They tore them apart or mess with all my organized DIY materials. I had to put the stuff away or I had to take them away from the stuffs.

When I planned to have a midnight movie watching or a date with hubby, I have to consider should I left them with my mum. Can my mum handle their crying and wailing when they saw me leaving?

When my babies have already fell asleep, I pick up my novel, and ZZZzzzzz.... the novel thus became my bedtime stories.

Not to complain, far from making any unpleasant remarks. But, I just want to tell people, those are the things I miss. Some friends keep asking me, "It's been a while I saw u did this, did that..."Well, this is why. I am no longer a single lady, I am no longer living alone.
I am a mother of two and a wife. AND I am proud telling people that.

Those are the things I miss.
BUT
I never regret those sacrifices.
I'd rather have my kids than have those.
None can ever be exchanged for them.

Agree? :)
XOXO



Monday, November 10, 2014

HIATUS...

Assalamualaikum,

too many things to be done.

Need to straighten up all things first, then baru sambung merepek...


daaaaa...

Monday, June 2, 2014

Menegur untuk kebaikkan atau nak menjatuhkan?

Assalam,

Dah lama nak tulis pasal tajuk ni. Tapi, bila fikir-fikir, malas pulak. Baik tulis yang merepek saja. Hehe. Bila terjumpa kisah best yang kena ngan tajuk ni, so aku pun ada la idea nak tulis.


Kisahnya, ada sipolan ni. Menegur kat FB. Kawan dia ni makan dekat restoran yang empunya ialah Ca Ya Nun Alip. Tanya kawan dia ni kedai tu ada sijil halal x? Komen terang-terang kat FB.
Bagi aku la, mesti la yg kena tegur tu terkedu sebab baru terpikir, tadi makan kat kedai tak halal ke? Selama ni memang Muslim makan je kat situ. Takde pulak huru hara sebab kedai tu jual makanan tak halal. Pastu, kena tegur di khalayak ramai (dlm FB kan semua orang boleh baca). Malu tak kalau jadi kawan tu tadi? Malu lah!

Nak jadi cerita, kawan ni tak puas hati. Dia bukak website Halal Jakim, google apa yang patut. Jumpa la dia dgn penyataan yang kedai tu Halal sebenarnya. Cuma pernah ada kontroversi. (Macam kes Starbucks yg org kecoh x halal, tapi sebenarnya ada sijil Halal). Kawan ni reply la semula comment tu.

Yang aku nak highlight sini adalah cara komen tu.

Bila nak tegur isu-isu sensitif, ada baiknya guna pendekatan secara halus. Banyak cara. Ada fon number, message la. Lagi senang, guna Whatsapp.
Tak ada no phone? PM kat FB. Ko dah boleh komen, takkan takleh message kut?
Tak boleh message sebab orang tu dah privatekan FB dia? Comment la dengan penuh bijaksana. Guna ayat yang bertepatan dan bukan dengan nada sindiran.

Teringat cerita UstazKazim Alias, dalam satu ceramah dia di TV. Meh aku share ringkasan cerita tu;
"Ada seorang kakak ni. Dia hantar anak ke sekolah tak pakai tudung. Hari-hari kakak ni bertembung dengan Ustaz Kazim. Ustaz tak tegur apa pun. Ustaz cuma bagi salam. Hari-hari. Mula-mula kakak ni, turun dengan baju lengan pendek. Lepas tu, kakak ni berubah sikit demi sedikit. Akhirnya, dia berubah pakai tudung. Hanya dengan salam yang diberikan oleh ustaz Kazim."

 Hidup kita ni, kalau nak menegur kena la ada caranya. Kena berhikmah dan halus. Rasulullah saw mengislamkan umat manusia pun bukannya letak parang kat leher orang. Semuanya bermula dengan senyap dan rahsia.

Nak tegur orang pon perlu siasat juga sahih atau tak sesuatu perkara tu ye.
:)

Jadilah generasi berilmu, bukan generasi yang hanya tahu share tapi ilmu tak ada. Malu je dapat.

Wednesday, May 14, 2014

The most expensive things I ever spent on


Assalamualaikum wbth..


WEEEEEEE!!!! YEAY!!!! Alhamdulillah. Dah abis semua assignments siap dihantar walaupun dengan berpenat lelah, x cukup tidur, siang malam penat bekerja. Hah! Tu dia! I can pat my own shoulder. (sbb xde org nak pat my shoulder, pat sendiri je la. hihik). Cuma minggu ni, hari Sabtu ada final exam. Seb baik satu paper je. Lepas ni, no more weekends classes. Tapi, jangan nak senang ati sangat ye Pn. Farah. Nun, project paper tergantung lagi tu. Jangan berangan ko dah dpt scroll ye.


Ok. Bila dah free ni, banyakkkkk sangat benda boleh buat. Balik2 tu, boleh siap lepak ngan anak2 lagi. Nampak sangat sebelum ni asyik sibukkkkk je memanjang. Anak-anak pun kurang kena layan. Sorry Adam, sorry Adik. I'll make up to both of u...

Pencapaian terbaik sepanjang minggu lepas adalah, melipat kain berbakul-bakul yang terhimpun selama seminggu. Ha! Amik ko. penat melipat. Hehe. Tu yang terhimpun mgu lepas. Sebelum ni xde la lipat. Semuanya, kalau nak pakai cari dalam bakul. Lawaks hoccay... incik suami pon tolong lipat. Shayammm bie..

Balik2 mama layan budak masham berdua ni dulu
Balik2 mama layan budak masham berdua ni dulu.

So...project seterusnya adalah... house items hunting. Alhamdulillah. Last week pegi tengok kawasan rumah, n tersergam rumah dah siap kunci n basuh by the contractor. Dengar cerita bulan 6 ni mmg drg akan bagi kunci. Suka!!!!

Sangat la hepi, unimaginable! (Gitew skali ok!). Bukan apa, imagine selama 4 tahun kawen, asyik duduk rumah sempit sewa mahal, tuan rumah jenis tuan tanah kedaung. Huh! Bila kita claim brg rumah rosak, dia bising, saying that we are the one who used it..bla..bla bla... (eh..rasa mcm penat merepek pasal benda ni. xpe la). Tuan rumah jenis mengungkit n nak naikkan sewa for the sake of taking advantage. Takpe la kak. Lepas saya keluar ni, akak makan la duit sewa akak tu puas2.

Ok...ni gamba rumah saya. Kaler ijau ok? Hahahaha.. layan je la. 
Baiti Jannati
Baiti Jannati
Sekarang ni duk wat list to do. Nak beli apa yang patut. Previously, dah update pasal benda2 major kan? Sekarang benda2 remeh-temeh.

1. Cat- my sofa is dark grey. So, I am trying to match the color of the paint dengan sofa. Hmmm... color ape eh? The children n my bedroom too. Hahaha... poning palo mokcik nak pikir.

2. My babies bedrooms- Nak kena pikir almari, or children's nyer furniture ke?

3. Curtains- what kind of curtain types yg boleh match dengan wall color. Jenis kain? Nak tempah dengan sape?? Mahal x?

4. Kitchen- how should i arrange the kitchen? Banyak tak barang nak letak?


Ala....banyaknya benda nk pikir. Hire satu ID sudah... kuikuikuiiii



Tuesday, April 29, 2014

Sometimes you just have to stop what you are doing

Assalamualaikum,

It is going to be a bit emotional writing from me today.

As a mother and a wife, I am really blessed to have a very understanding husband and two beautiful babies. Yes, they are. People will look at them, cooing and baby talking to them, especially Humaira. Fine...I don't mind.

BUT

I DO MIND if you are

1. SMOKING and try to get close to my baby.  Excuse me! Are you dumb or what? It is enough that you are jeopardizing your life. Don't put my baby in the same hole. Don't you know about passive smoker, idiot?

2. A WOMAN and my husband is holding the baby, and ME, the wife is not around. HELLO!!! Don't u feel the same if your boyfriend holding a phone and I am touching it? (not that my baby as cheap as that phone). The point is, stop messing with somebody's baby and husband whose wife is not there. You should be extra careful even if you are attracted to the baby so much. If the mother is holding the baby and you are a woman, that is a different story. Opposite sex is a big NO!

3. PURPOSELY MAKES MY BABY CRIES. Yes, baby cries a lot. But you are not the one who'll be panicking and desperately trying to stop the baby from crying. Don't you know that parents have a lot of things to do apart from that? Don't you know how to treat a baby?If you use your loud voice, your purposely sound angry voice, don't you think it is inappropriate? They'll get scared. Babies are months old and you are..?

Put yourself in the parents shoes. It is not that I am a very fussy mother. I am not to the extend, 'don't touch my baby, you are full of germs'. No, I am not. But, these simple things irritate me.

I love hearing words like my baby is beautiful and they are lovely, she is cute, Abang is adorable. Yeah...it kinda makes me a proud mama. But, I really can't tolerate with the 3 types above.

Please, if you think I am too much, wait until somebody do this to u. You'll know how it tastes. :)

P/s: Dah abis meroyan. Jom wat assignment.

Wednesday, April 23, 2014

Lagi sebulan...kununnn

Assalamualaikum,

Ok..hari ini..adalah hari bosan saya. Nak buat kerja, malas. Buka je paper exam budak, timbul la vitamin M dalam kepala.

Telefon lak rosak. Gapo neh. Time peak camni la rosak.

Ok, nak buat ape? Update blog la. Siap tuka background lagi. weetttt...

Rumah baru dijangka siap bulan June. Betul ke? Betul la kot. Ritu dah siap masuk dalam dah. Interior dah complete. Just air, elektrik. Tu belum.

Ok, latest update.

1. Grill & gate- Harga, mak aihhhh. Makan riban2. Hahaha. Padan la. Itu la harga sekarang. Tapi x finalize lagi sape la kontraktor nak buat ni. Gamba ni lebih kurang la ape dlm kepala kitorg... hmmmm




2. Kitchen kabinet- Dah book kat A-Craft. Cuma design x finalize. Nt drg akan datang ukur. Cadang2 nya nak buat ala2 yang dlm gamba ni sbb ruang dapur kecik. Nak sambung dapur, xde ongkos ya.

Kitchen Design Ideas Simple White Kitchen Cabinet

3. Lighting- dah gi usha kedai lampu. Hasil? Tak payah la bawak saya lenkali. Tak berminat betul nak pilih lampu. Rasa x menarik langsung. Saya akan serahkan semuanya pada incik suami le kalo gitu. Tak mau amik tau.

So far, ni je la kot. yang lain2 tunggu dapat kunci rumah la. Hahahaha